we eventually go through the everyday regiment expected with whatever comes in and out of which makes the day to what it should be, just like meeting new friends to keep up with your own pace of a social trend every now and then without knowing why you meet these individuals on an occasional basis,.

knowing this, something came up to mind and for some reason, i have developed a theory and i really don't know if it would be of common knowledge or that of my own, where, whenever we get to be acquainted with someone, and there's a point of imprint onto a building relationship whether it be a fair weathered or a close friend, an acquaintance, a beer buddy, as long as we have this vision of "ok, i guess i'll be seeing this fellow quite more often as expected" now, from that point, he or she would be in your list of people you relate with on a long term period.

a great man once told us that when we die, and hopefully go to heaven, we would be able to meet the people we'd apparently choose to be with in our own paradise, and as what i explained above the coincidence comes in that the people in the list is a directory of whom we might be with in the after life, all of those we usually get to remember and not the ones we just see in friendster and say, "uy! it's blah blah" not those type of friends, what i find is that of like our family for one, the friends we hang out with is second, the certain people we see everyday and share something with, that's three..and those of the kind... so i guess it's an honor to have met the ones we know, our friends of few and far between